Dear Gorgeous Little One,
First things first, hang in there. I know things seem hard right now and I’m not going to lie to you and say it’s going to get easier straight away (because it’s not) BUT what I am going to say is this: you are stronger than you think. What you’re going through now, the pain and the hurt, is going to mould you into something beautiful. So just hold on a little longer – it might not get easier but you’ll get tougher.
You should know that being selfless around selfish people is soul destroying. I know you think by giving out unconditional love to all you will receive it but unfortunately this isn’t always the case. Take a breath before you give – it’s okay to withhold what you offer, even for just a moment. Take time for YOU – this won’t be easy and if you can’t do it, don’t worry. Don’t change who you are, just try your best to love yourself first.
I am sorry you are dealing with this on your own with no one to help or support you but believe me when I say everything you are struggling with now you will view as a blessing later on in life.
I’ll leave you with one last thing; trust yourself. You are so much braver, stronger and intelligent than you (and others) give yourself credit for. Own who you are and stand tall, be fearless in the pursuit of who you want to be and what you want to achieve. Never lose hope in yourself and even if you feel, some days, like you can’t go on, know that I am here with you.
Forever and always Eternally yours